1. There is a popular belief in some societies that "men do not marry women born in the year of the Rooster, and women do not marry men born in the year of the Ram." This notion stems from ancient feudal superstitions.2. In traditional beliefs, women born in the year of the Ram were thought to have不幸的命運, with the saying "nine out of ten Rams are not complete" suggesting they might lead lives filled with hardship.3. Meanwhile, men born in the year of the Rooster were portrayed as hardworking but lacking in fortune.4. However, in modern times, these ideas are no longer valid.5. Many men born in the year of the Rooster, such as actors Feng Gong and Gong Hanlin, have achieved significant success in their careers. This proves that the zodiac sign does not determine a person's destiny.6. Similarly, women born in the year of the Ram can also lead happy and fulfilling lives, debunking the limitations of traditional beliefs.7. Another saying is "men fear the year of the Date Palm and the Goat, women fear the year of the Pig," reflecting various folk tales from different regions. However, these statements have no scientific basis and should not be overly burdensome.8. In fact, there is insufficient scientific evidence to support the connection between the zodiac and destiny. These are superstitions from the past feudal society and should not be used to evaluate modern individuals.9. Life is filled with difficulties and challenges, and they are catalysts for our growth and resilience.10. Maintaining a positive attitude when facing difficulties is crucial.11. Most importantly, a person's destiny and happiness are not determined by their zodiac sign, but rather by their efforts and attitude.12. Therefore, we should take control of our own lives, face every challenge bravely, and not let these outdated superstitious beliefs bind us.